Keeping the Spark Alive in Your Relationship 24/7

by | Aug 8, 2020 | 0 comments

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Millions of couples have found themselves thrown in at the deep end thanks to the Coronavirus Pandemic. Sure, most people with a significant other are used to their annoying habits, but this lockdown has taken it to another level. It is definitely hard keeping the spark alive in your relationship on a regular day, add in the pandemic and it brings it to an entirely different level and can bring on added stress that is absolutely not wanted.

It is definitely hard keeping the spark alive in your relationship on a regular day, add in the pandemic and it brings it to an entirely different level.
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Whereas before you could get away and have time to yourself, now you’re stuck in the house together. This is the new relationship normal. Rather than bumbling through it and becoming increasingly frustrated, it’s essential to be proactive and take the necessary steps to ensure you still like your partner.

Keeping the Spark Alive in Your Relationship Everyday

Your love might not fade, but enjoying each other’s company can. That's why it is absolutely important to work on keeping the spark alive in your relationship. The good news is that your feelings may not fade if you take my advice below.

Have Honest Conversations

Whether you’re new to living together or have been doing it for decades, there are plenty of conversations you can have with your SO. You might have avoided them for a while, but now is the time to address them head-on. Firstly, it’s about your emotional connection. Being physical is one thing, yet understanding how your partner’s brain works is the key to a long-lasting relationship. Secondly, it’ll help you pass the time! After all, a lockdown is boring and you don’t want to get into the habit of watching the TV all the time. 

Https://www.theknot.com/content/things-to-talk-about-before-marriage has five topics you can start with if you need inspiration towards keeping the spark alive in your relationship.

Put Your Phone Away

It’s never been easier to whip out your phone and scroll through social media. If anything, your devices have been essential regarding maintaining your sanity levels. Without a phone, you’d have been punching the walls with frustration! However, you can lean on it too much, and this is when it starts to get in the way of your relationship. If you’re alone, you should do what you want to stave off boredom, but if your SO arrives, you should put it away and engage.

It is definitely hard keeping the spark alive in your relationship on a regular day, add in the pandemic and it brings it to an entirely different level.

This is a surefire sign that you care about what both parties have to say. It is something that I personally have struggled with through out my husband's and my relationship. I have been making a conscience effort in putting the phone down while we are having a conversation, so that he knows that I am listening to him 100%. It is not easy to do, but it is possible. Who would have though that putting the phone down will aide in keeping the spark alive in your relationship, but it definitely does.

Don’t Half-ass Date Night

Pretty much every couple on the planet have been talking about date night during self-isolation. Yes, if you do it right, then it is an incredible experience. Yet, if you half-ass it, it’s going to be pointless. To be proactive, you must consider dressing up, cooking, and doing anything to go the extra mile. As well as candles and a gourmet meal, you can get the conversation flowing with wine. First Leaf has a wine club that you can check out at https://www.thewineclubreviews.com/firstleaf-review/. You’ll love the introductory bottles, as well as the wine itself.

If you're not able to eat out due to restrictions, that does not mean you have to go through the motions! My husband and I will often cook meals together and we consider that part of the date. We have a blast doing it also.

Plan For The Future

The future seems a long way away right now. Still, there will be a time when COVID-19 and lockdown are a distant memory. When that day arrives, it is best to be ready by planning how you want to spend the time. It can be as simple as creating a list of the countries on your vacation bucket list. Plan together. That way you are not only keeping the spark alive in your relationship, but you are finding out what type of plans your spouse has for their future with you.

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